Our Happy Places: Horses, Bourbon, and Running

Two years ago we spent time in Kentucky and fell in love with the horse and bourbon culture. We couldn’t wait to return, so this week we settled ourselves in the state capital of Frankfort to continue our exploration of this beautiful area. 

Kentucky views

Let’s start with horses. During this visit, we were able to catch the last day of racing at Keeneland’s spring meet. Our general admission tickets allowed us to approach the rail and see the horses up close.

Despite some periods of heavy rain, it was a fun afternoon, cheering the ponies, losing a few dollars, and watching the people. 

Dad always said, “bet on a grey horse on a sloppy track.” Well, that didn’t work for us today but we gave it a shot!

This trip coincided with one of the premier equestrian events in the world: the Defender Kentucky Three Day Event.

The competition draws Olympic-level competitors including Michael Jung, Boyd Martin, and Harry Meade.

We attended on Saturday, which featured the cross country competition. Over a four mile course, riders and their mounts race the clock over 20+ fence combinations. As you can see from the photos, we were able to get very close to the horses and were able to walk through the course, seeing the event from all angles. What a day!

And, to finish the horse part of our visit, we took a tour of Spy Coast Farms, one of the leading performance horse breeders and trainers. In the fastest two hours ever, we toured the 800+ acres seeing the training, rehabilitation, and breeding facilities.

We met the stallions, who are treated as royalty. The best part, of course, was meeting the mares and recently foaled babies. Did you know that in operations like these they use “recipient mares,” or what we might consider surrogates, to carry and birth the babies for top performance mares? 

In between horsey fun, we hit a number of distilleries we missed when we were here two years ago. The bourbon industry has been exploding, so there were quite a few new operations added to the Bourbon Trail.

During our week in central Kentucky we visited: J. Mattingly, Buffalo Trace (twice), Castle and Key, Whiskey Thief, RD1, Bluegrass Distillers, and Four Roses. Each stop is a unique experience.

For example, tasting at Buffalo Trace is free, and every day they sell a different featured, sometimes rare bourbon. At Castle and Key, we opted for a taste amidst the stunningly beautiful grounds. 

RD1 is moving to a new facility in Lexington, and we were given a tour of the yet-to-be-completed facility and a private tasting experience. Soon they will offer a premium blending experience, and we were invited by the tasting room manager to try some of the samples right from the tiny barrels. 

At Four Roses we opted for the legacy tour, which gave us access to the fermentation tanks and historic grounds. Of course, a guided tasting of their tasty bourbon followed the tour. 

We are leaving Kentucky with our supplies restocked.

We started each morning at the local Planet Fitness, which was a convenient way to maintain a little fitness while on the road. We’re thankful for this useful benefit from United Healthcare.

Leaving bourbon country, we traveled 90 minutes north for a marathon in Steve’s 40th state, Ohio. Before race day, we hit a few of northern Kentucky’s bourbon distilleries. Each stop gives us another stamp in our Bourbon Trail passport book, with goal of filling the whole book! We also found Party Source, considered to be the largest liquor store east of the Mississippi.

The Flying Pig in Cincinnati is considered one of the best races on the calendar, with over 5,000 marathoners and 49,000 total participants in the weekend’s pig-themed events. The expo, sponsored by Proctor and Gamble, was a celebration of running with lots of free P&G samples.

Race day met Steve with off and on rain but decent temperatures for running. With this he has just 10 more states before completing all 50 states.

Steve’s 60th Birthday Bash

Every decade since his 40th, Steve has celebrated his big birthday in Las Vegas surrounded by family and friends. His 60th birthday was on February 14, 2025, and this party was the biggest one yet. We are grateful to the 28 people who came from all parts of the country to join the festivities.

Almost the whole group

We arrived on Thursday to get settled into our suite at the Flamingo Hotel. Since we had lots of supplies and things to set up, we wanted to have a day’s headstart on the party. Some of our favorite people arrived on Thursday too, so we started with a few drinks to warm up. Thanks to Mitch, Lauren, Caleb, Larry, and Tom for carrying everything from the parking garage to the room so the party could get started!

That first evening we had dinner at Havana 1957, the Cuban restaurant at the hotel, with more of our favorite people. Joined by Sam, Kunio, Michelle, and Mitch, we had a great dinner and even better conversations.

Steve just had to start his actual birthday early on Friday morning with a free Grand Slam breakfast.

But, the real party started with a Friday night happy hour in our suite. We were overwhelmed by the energy everyone brought. For over two hours, this special group of people met and mingled like they’d all known each other for years. From cousins to RV friends and from family to neighbors, this group came from every corner of our lives (and the country). Having everyone in one room was so heartwarming.

Saturday began with an informal breakfast gathering before everyone set out on their own to explore Las Vegas. Thanks to Judy Green for supplying so many options for breakfast. Again, more laughs and great conversations.

Saturday’s main event started with another happy hour to warm up for our group dinner at Battista’s Hole in the Wall. Happy hour allowed us all to gather the group before walking together to dinner.

Nearly 40 years ago, Steve and I found Battista’s in the yellow pages and were drawn to the landmark restaurant by the offer of free wine. It’s still one of our favorite places in Vegas. It’s always a loud place and was even louder since we were seated in a room with a youth hockey team. Talk about an energetic room!

We hope everyone enjoyed their dinner and the warm company of our group. Battista’s is not gourmet, but we sure enjoyed sharing it with our wonderful family and friends.

Mark your calendar for the weekend of February 14, 2035 when we’ll gather again to celebrate Steve when he turns 70!

Highlights from Five Months on the Road

We are about to arrive home after a five month road trip that has taken us over 10,000 miles through 14 states.  There have been highs and some lows (thanks, COVID), and we continue to focus on the highs and the tremendous opportunity we have to explore our country while towing our home behind us.  

Camping in Palo Duro Canyon State Park, Canyon, Texas

When we travel towards home, we always reflect on our journey and discuss our personal highlights.  Here’s what we came up with this time around.  Details about each can be found in earlier blog posts and we’ve linked to those where possible.

Marnie’s highlights

Kentucky’s Horse Experiences – From a semi-private, backstretch tour of Churchill Downs to meeting some of the world’s most famous (and expensive) stallions at Claiborne Farms, our time in and around Louisville and Lexington was unforgettable.  

Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta – Attending the world famous event is a bucket list experience for most RVers.  From early morning launches of hundreds of balloons to evening glows, we took it all in from every angle. 

Taylor Swift’s Era’s Tour Movie with Brynn and other kid activities – Spending time with our nieces and nephews is always fun.  We went to soccer games, basketball games, tumbling practice, to the golf course, Top Golf, and the shopping mall. Thanks to Lydia, Nate, Brynn, and Hudson for letting us hang out! The most memorable for me was seeing Taylor Swift’s concert movie with Brynn and sharing the excitement with her. 

Steve’s highlights

Kayaking Fishing in the Florida Keys – Most mornings while we were in the Keys, Steve took his fishing kayak out around the bridges of the Overseas Highway. On most mornings he’d snag (and release) at least a dozen or more fish. Being on the open water, under the sunshine is a paradise for him.

Completing Four More Marathons – Races often determine our itinerary. This year we spent the fall passing through Indianapolis, Louisville, Huntsville, and Jackson to explore each city and for Steve to run 26.2 miles. Including this trip’s races he has now completed a marathon in 34 states and 44 total marathons. Races are always a highlight!

Bourbon Tasting – The first thing we did when we got into Kentucky was to buy the Bourbon Trail Passport book and begin to check the distilleries off page by page. We visited 15 distilleries and tasted at least four bourbons at each facility. You do the math. Steve says his favorite bourbon is the one in his hand!

A five-month trip, of course, has many memorable moments. The big events and the little moments all make this lifestyle so rewarding. Between seeing great RV friends in Tampa, discovering wonderful restaurants in the Keys, watching sunset over Mobile Bay, and visiting with family, this has been a great journey.

We’ve been RVing almost full time for almost four years. A lot people ask us about the details of our travels. Just for fun, here are some stats about this winter’s cross-country adventure.

Nights in the RV: 153

Nights parked in the family’s driveways: 10 (thanks Brian, Heidi, Gary, and Kristy!)

Number of KOA campgrounds visited:
(Grants, NM; Nashville, TN;  Orlando, FL; Sugarloaf Key, FL; St. Petersburg/Madiera Beach, FL; Shreveport/Bossier City, LA)

Number of Harvest Host overnights:
(Fireside Winery, Marengo, IA; Epiphany Farms, Downs, IL; Corbin Farms Winery, Calera, AL; Lane Southern Orchards, Fort Valley, GA, NRS Ranch, Decatur, TX; Sierra Blanca Brewing Co., Moriarity, NM)

Nights camping on a landfill: 7 (during the Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta)

Number of state parks visited: 10
(My Old Kentucky Home, Bardstown, KY; Gulf State Park, Gulf Shores, AL; Paynes Prairie Preserve, Micanopy, FL; Jonathan Dickinson, Jupiter, FL; John Pennekamp Coral Reef, Key Largo, FL; Little Manatee River, Wimauma, FL; Fort Desoto, Tierra Verde, FL; Meaher, Mobile, AL; Palo Duro Canyon, Canyon, TX; Homolovi, Winslow, AZ) 

Number of books read by Marnie: 24 (favorite titles include Between Two Kingdoms by Sulieka Jaouad, Mad Honey by Jodi Picoult, Empire of Pain: The Secret History of the Sackler Dynasty by Patrick Radden Keefe, America’s First Daughter by Stephanie Dray, and Horse by Geraldine Brooks)

The first photo in this post is from our stop at Palo Duro Canyon, where we stopped on our way home. Here’s roughly the same photo from the next morning. We experienced ash and smoke in Amarillo two days ago from the massive Texas fires. Now it’s snowing just 30 miles south of Amarillo. RV travel never ceases to surprie!

We’ll be at home in Arizona for awhile to repair, refresh, and renew ourselves and the RV. Stay tuned as we have some pretty incredible travel plans ahead.